20 Books of Summer, 8: Au Revoir, Tristesse by Viv Groskop

This is a substitute I picked out as a potential (now belated) #ParisinJuly2025 contribution. There’s been little time for writing over the past week while we’ve been hosting my sister and brother-in-law. Their whirlwind trip was shortened by a day due to a cancelled flight from the States, but we managed to pack in a lot, including a two-night mini-break down in Devon.

Reminiscent of Something to Declare by Julian Barnes and How Proust Can Change Your Life by Alain de Botton, this is a lighthearted tour through a dozen great works of French literature and the lessons they might offer modern readers on how to live well. Ever since her school days of studying French and spending every family holiday in France, Groskop has been obsessed with the language and culture. In most of the chapters, she undertakes a rereading of a novel she first read as a teenager or Cambridge student, marveling at how much more she gets out of it with greater life experience.

Although her choices are indisputable classics, she acknowledges they can only ever be an incomplete and biased selection, unfortunately all white and largely male, though she opens with Bonjour Tristesse and also includes Colette and Duras novels. I’d only read three of her dozen, in translation: along with the Sagan, Dangerous Liaisons and Madame Bovary (as well as other books by two of the additional authors), but it didn’t make much difference whether I was familiar with a plot or not. So long as one is not allergic to spoilers, it’s possible to enjoy these miniature essays’ witty combination of literary criticism, biographical information, self-help messaging, and a bit of autobiographical context.

The male writers tended to be syphilitic workaholics – Balzac is reputed to have drunk 50 cups of coffee per day to sustain his output – while the women flouted social conventions by drinking, taking much younger (and/or female) lovers and driving recklessly. While the subtitle promises “Lessons in Happiness,” from Hugo to Camus these are in fact pretty miserable narratives in which, as was especially common in the 19th century, protagonists are punished for ambition or transgressions, or never reach contentment because of self-delusion.

In boiling down each plot to one line of advice for a chapter title, Groskop’s tone alternates between earnest (“Our greatest weaknesses conceal our greatest strengths” = Cyrano de Bergerac) and tongue in cheek (“Social climbing rarely pays off, but you’ll probably want to do it anyway” = Le Rouge et le Noir). She describes the works with genuine affection and clearly believes they are still worth reading, yet isn’t afraid to question those aspects that have aged less well. Controversially, she suggests being selective with Proust’s mammoth oeuvre: “skim-read, rereading the passages you fall in love with and discarding the rest.” She also surveys how the stories live on through adaptations. Of the new-to-me, I’m most drawn to Bel-Ami but also fancy La Cousine Bette. This was a delight I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend to fellow Francophiles. (New purchase – remainder from Hay Cinema Bookshop)

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  1. Elle's avatar

    I like the sound of this! Bel-Ami is terrific; do give it a try, it’s like more succinct Trollope. I definitely need to read some Balzac.

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  2. margaret21's avatar

    I didn’t get n with the first book I read by Groskop (I can’t even remember what it was) so haven’t picked up anything since. Time to get over myself and try again?

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    1. Rebecca Foster's avatar

      She’s an equally ardent Russophile and her previous book was about life lessons from the Russian masters.

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      1. margaret21's avatar

        That was it! I ended up DNF-ing it, but my husband enjoyed it.

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  3. Liz Dexter's avatar

    Sounds fun, although I still have to avoid French stuff at the minute while my Spanish is bedding in.

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  4. WordsAndPeace's avatar

    Oh nice, I hadn’t heard about this one

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  5. WordsAndPeace's avatar

    And congrats for making it to #ParisinJuly2025. Let’s just say your plane was delayed, it happens all the time 😉

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  6. Unknown's avatar

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  7. MarinaSofia's avatar

    Ha, a great summary of The Red and the Black! This sounds fun.

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  8. Marcie McCauley's avatar

    What a great choice for that event! One of my favourite local cafes is named for Balzac…good reason, eh? I wonder what constituted a coffee cup back then. No matter how one defines it, however, fifty of them is a LOT.

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    1. Rebecca Foster's avatar

      I’m surprised he could afford the habit. I wonder if it was very weak in those days. STILL.

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